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Coping With Change — How To Be In-Between

Aug 06, 2021

Surprise: I'm leaving New York! I'm in the process of packing up my whole life (again) and moving down to the Washington, DC area. This transition has me thinking a lot about coping with change, or the idea of being in-between.

We've been talking a lot about this at Pretty Decent this month, mainly because it's a question so many people struggle with. When we're in-between, in the messy middle, it can get real anxious real fast.

After all, if you're always waiting for the next thing to happen, you inevitably start sweating a little wondering when it'll arrive (or how it'll feel when it finally does).

When it comes to coping with change, or being comfortable in-between, to me it becomes a question about tension.

What do we do with the tension that comes up when we're in-between big life changes?

The feeling I've had for the past few weeks is almost like the moment right before a big sneeze. My body feels taught, rigid — like it's waiting for something that hasn't happened yet, but ...

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